THE ART OF NOT CARING
If you can draw perfect pictures, If you can sing songs like a bird singing on a tree, If you do a sport professionaly, If you speak more than two languages, If you can solve math problems easily and have a perfect academic success then welcome to the world of bullying. People don't always bully useless people they sometimes (generally!) bully the people who are talented. So, if people are making fun of you because you have a talent, congratulations you are so successful that they are jealous of you!
In this page you will learn the ways of not caring. Let's begin!
1) Change Your Life Perspective
The problem is not you so NEVER think like you are insufficient. You are more talented than you think and you should never give up your success because they are just jealous of you and you should be proud of that. It's obvious that if they have the opportunity, they would like to be you! Don't forget that it's all about how you lead your psychology so don't let them defeat you.
2) Life Is Short
Life is too short to think all about that, just rest your head and relax! Just kiddng...There is no life without problems but you should choose the important things in your life and if you are about to decide wheather you should care about a situation, compare the importances and see if it's worth to care.
3) You Can't Change Their Opinions, But You Can Change The Way You React
You can't change their constant hate about you so don't try to be more polite to them in order to show them that you are not the person they think you are. I already tried to be more polite but nothing changes, believe me. They just continue to talk from your behind so change your reactions. I found a beneficial YouTube channel years ago about this. I'll leave the link right here.
4) If You Care Less, You Will Get More
Strangely, this one always works, if you are obsessed with something just let it go, stop thinking about it and you'll get that. For example i was obsessed with a highschool so I worked hard to get into there but i couldn't. Still, I am happy with the one I attend now. Another example, I lost my one and only guitar pick and I thought I'd never find it again because it's too small and our house is too big to search that. So I decided to buy new ones. After that day, I encountered that pick in the bathroom. I have no idea why it was there maybe I left the pick in my pocket and then it went to the washing maschine? No idea.
5) Consider The Insult As A Crisis And Turn That Into An Opportunity
The main word of this matter is ambition. It can sound intense but it's one of the strongest traits a person can have. I'll just give a quick example.
From the start of highschool I always had a deep interest in German. I was going courses and doing some online exercises at home. Someday, when I was in German lesson in my classroom I pronounced the article ''der'' different from the others and the girls in the front desk made fun of me. Throughout the school year I didnt change my pronunciation I just got more ambitious and doubled my German study hours. The punchline? I was the only one pronouncing correctly the whole time.
According to the research, the secret of longevity is not just, sleep, exercise and nutrition, it's ''not caring''. It doesn't mean ignoring others completely but there is a proven link between psychology and physical health. So if you want to be happy and live long ,because not caring fosters happiness and happiness leads a long life, take my father as an example: If he says something mocking to me I got furious and say something detrimental to him but guess his reaction, he only laughs. Then it gets on my nerves and I say another word to him, but he laughs again. So, that's the secret of being happy and living a long life. (I am not old enough to write something about living long but i can say that I have my living experiments) Maybe the formula of living long can be love too but then Jack shouldnt have been dead after all the things he experienced with Rose. It's worth to resist the coldness of an ocean in the name of love. Anyway, I have a book recommendation for you. A book that literally changed my life perspective and can be the most beneficial personal growth book I have ever read. ''The Subtle Of Not Giving A F*ck'' by Mark Manson. You can find the flashing stories of inspiring people in this book, like the first guitarist of Metallica, Dave Mustaine, who became the founder of Megadeth after he got kicked out from Metallica.
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Thanks for your valuable advice. I will definitely take them into consideration.
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